Want to talk, but I'm scared.?

I want to talk to my ex, we have hung out all weekend, and she cried to me one night when we were talking about stuff. I want to know where she stands, and want to keep talking about stuff, but I don't want to suffocate her. We have been broken up for 10 months, and have tried getting together once a few months ago, but I made her feel pressured. I want to know what I can do to make sure this time it works, I want to talk to her, but I don't want to make her feel pressured again, so I want to take it slow, but I don't know when she will message me. Can you guys give me some advice?